The Eight rules of fingering.
Right guys and girls, I've heard a lot about this topic, whether it's overrated/ underrated etc.
The truth is in my trusted opinion brace yourselves, it's highly underrated!! It's become Ancient, gone to a far away place, it's been forgotten about and swept under the carpet, when it comes to foreplay, unfortunately fingering isn't something young lovers tend to opt for, *wheeps to myself* many men would much rather stimulate the clitoris with their tongue, or off course their penises, typical lol.
Back in the day oral sex was frowned upon, men or should I say boys were ashamed to admit it, so off course that's where their hands came into play.
Hmmm so are guys crap at fingering because they're not used to it, or they're just uneducated??? or even because girls fake moan, by the way I think it's completely amateur to fake moan, but that's a topic for another day. Whatever the reason may be, fear not you beautiful people, I'm going to teach you how to stimulate the vagina using nothing but your fingers, believe it or not with a good technique, fingering can lead to an orgasm, I said orgasm ya digg? *Booker T voice* and if he's got an anaconda finger, then DAMN you're in for a treat, to make it easier I've got 8 simple rules, only eight I didn't go overboard, so guys take out your notepad, memorise them.
1. Cut/trim nails. Long nails are a no no, they can seriously take the pleasure away, plus it hurts like a motherfucker, file/cut them completely down, long nails can also cause scratches/ bruising or even worse an infection, think about all the bacteria that could be trapped under your nails, seriously guys it won't take longer than 3 mins, don't be lazy.
2. WASH YOUR HANDS. Sorry I had to put this in capital letters, it's so fucking important, throughout the day we harvest so many germs on our hands through eating, smoking etc, obviously if these dirty hands are up a girl's clean vagina that can't be great, according to a study the average hand has 4,752 unique bacterias wowzers!!! So please wash them hands for about 2 mins with soap and plenty of warm water, ya digggg.
3. Be gentle. The vagina is a delicate flower well mine is loool, the middle and the index fingers are the only ones you need, rather than shoving it in aggressively, do soft gentle circular motions, repeatedly inside the vagina, this stimulates the clitoris, it slightly enlarges it too, at this point you should feel her eroused and very wet, if she isn't wet then you ain't doing it right.
4. Switch positions. Once you've started doing circular motions look for the signs of her enjoyment, it would be written all over her face, she's moaning, her vagina is wet etc, then speed it up, now don't go overboard, you can change from small circular motions to big circular motions, pick up the pace, go from clockwise to anti clockwise, try doing "come here" motions with your fingers
5. Use the middle finger. The middle finger is usually the longest which means it can stimulate the vagina the most, hitting that spot, stick it far up her vagina as you can going in and out repeatedly, basically FUCK her with your finger, excuse my French.
6. Communicate with her. If she wants it rougher go a little rougher, if she wants it deeper, stick it in abit deeper, eye contact is sexy too, don't be afraid to stare into her soul, while finger fucking her.
7. G SPOT, again capital letters lol, knowing where her G spot is, is so important!!! You'ld be surprised at how many guys or even woman, don't actually know where it is: News flash that's why you're not doing it right Duh. The G spot is located about 2-3 inches along the upper wall of her vagina, between the pussy lips, or should I say vagina opening to sound more prim and proper.
Once you know where that G spot is, you've already won, use your index and middle finger to play with it, stroke it, slide them fingers along it numerous times, before going back deep inside her vagina, at this point your fingers should be dripping wet with her pussy juices, you could probably feel her vagina throbbing, that's a good sign.
8. Last but not least, use your other hand. While one hand is occupied deep inside her vagina, use the other hand, caress her breasts with it, stroke her thighs, rubb her fat ass or small ass, she could be the freaky type and want you to slide a finger in there, ask her first, most woman don't like suprises it could completely put her off, you could also let her taste herself, experiment, go with the flow :)
Well that's it folks, 8 simple rules to stimulating the vagina through fingering, which could give her one of the best orgasms, I hope it helped, also practice makes perfect. XOXO
Right guys and girls, I've heard a lot about this topic, whether it's overrated/ underrated etc.
The truth is in my trusted opinion brace yourselves, it's highly underrated!! It's become Ancient, gone to a far away place, it's been forgotten about and swept under the carpet, when it comes to foreplay, unfortunately fingering isn't something young lovers tend to opt for, *wheeps to myself* many men would much rather stimulate the clitoris with their tongue, or off course their penises, typical lol.
Back in the day oral sex was frowned upon, men or should I say boys were ashamed to admit it, so off course that's where their hands came into play.
Hmmm so are guys crap at fingering because they're not used to it, or they're just uneducated??? or even because girls fake moan, by the way I think it's completely amateur to fake moan, but that's a topic for another day. Whatever the reason may be, fear not you beautiful people, I'm going to teach you how to stimulate the vagina using nothing but your fingers, believe it or not with a good technique, fingering can lead to an orgasm, I said orgasm ya digg? *Booker T voice* and if he's got an anaconda finger, then DAMN you're in for a treat, to make it easier I've got 8 simple rules, only eight I didn't go overboard, so guys take out your notepad, memorise them.
1. Cut/trim nails. Long nails are a no no, they can seriously take the pleasure away, plus it hurts like a motherfucker, file/cut them completely down, long nails can also cause scratches/ bruising or even worse an infection, think about all the bacteria that could be trapped under your nails, seriously guys it won't take longer than 3 mins, don't be lazy.
2. WASH YOUR HANDS. Sorry I had to put this in capital letters, it's so fucking important, throughout the day we harvest so many germs on our hands through eating, smoking etc, obviously if these dirty hands are up a girl's clean vagina that can't be great, according to a study the average hand has 4,752 unique bacterias wowzers!!! So please wash them hands for about 2 mins with soap and plenty of warm water, ya digggg.
3. Be gentle. The vagina is a delicate flower well mine is loool, the middle and the index fingers are the only ones you need, rather than shoving it in aggressively, do soft gentle circular motions, repeatedly inside the vagina, this stimulates the clitoris, it slightly enlarges it too, at this point you should feel her eroused and very wet, if she isn't wet then you ain't doing it right.
4. Switch positions. Once you've started doing circular motions look for the signs of her enjoyment, it would be written all over her face, she's moaning, her vagina is wet etc, then speed it up, now don't go overboard, you can change from small circular motions to big circular motions, pick up the pace, go from clockwise to anti clockwise, try doing "come here" motions with your fingers
5. Use the middle finger. The middle finger is usually the longest which means it can stimulate the vagina the most, hitting that spot, stick it far up her vagina as you can going in and out repeatedly, basically FUCK her with your finger, excuse my French.
6. Communicate with her. If she wants it rougher go a little rougher, if she wants it deeper, stick it in abit deeper, eye contact is sexy too, don't be afraid to stare into her soul, while finger fucking her.
7. G SPOT, again capital letters lol, knowing where her G spot is, is so important!!! You'ld be surprised at how many guys or even woman, don't actually know where it is: News flash that's why you're not doing it right Duh. The G spot is located about 2-3 inches along the upper wall of her vagina, between the pussy lips, or should I say vagina opening to sound more prim and proper.
Once you know where that G spot is, you've already won, use your index and middle finger to play with it, stroke it, slide them fingers along it numerous times, before going back deep inside her vagina, at this point your fingers should be dripping wet with her pussy juices, you could probably feel her vagina throbbing, that's a good sign.
8. Last but not least, use your other hand. While one hand is occupied deep inside her vagina, use the other hand, caress her breasts with it, stroke her thighs, rubb her fat ass or small ass, she could be the freaky type and want you to slide a finger in there, ask her first, most woman don't like suprises it could completely put her off, you could also let her taste herself, experiment, go with the flow :)
Well that's it folks, 8 simple rules to stimulating the vagina through fingering, which could give her one of the best orgasms, I hope it helped, also practice makes perfect. XOXO
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